Mental health is something that men are getting better and better at talking about. There is a growing understanding that although mental health issues can be triggered by stresses in daily life, they are clinical diseases that often require outside help and medical treatment. They can affect how a man feels, thinks, behaves and interacts with other people, and it is important that men feel they are able to talk about how they are feeling with their family and also their GP.
The Power of Thinking
Mental health is not something that can be dealt with by a ‘cookie-cutter’ approach as no one person’s situation is the same as another. However in addition to seeking medical advice, there is something to be said of the power of healthy thinking.
Dr Tom Mulholland began The Healthy Thinking Foundation because of his own experience with depression and the way he turned his life around through changing his thinking.
After working as a doctor for over 20 years, Dr Tom has found that “Healthy Thinking” is the most powerful medicine I have discovered. It can prevent and treat stress and uncertainty and give you control of your emotions, improve your physiology and reduce stress and anxiety.
1 in 6 New Zealand men will experience serious depression during their lifetime. Depression is more than a low mood. It is a serious illness that can need clinical treatment. Those with depression find it hard to function and it can have a serious affect on a person’s physical and mental health.
Factors which can contribute to depression in men:
- Physical health problems
There are many things you can do that can help protect you from getting depressed. These include:
- Staying fit and healthy
In New Zealand the suicide rate for men is 3 times that of women.
Suicide and suicidal tendencies are still some of hardest issues to talk about socially. It can be easier to approach the subject by having a concrete idea of where men are most vulnerable and what triggers can often lead towards an attempt on one’s life.
Those aged between15-24 have the highest rate of suicide, followed by people aged 25-34 years and Maori suicide rates are significantly higher than non-Maori suicide rates.
Some of the most common triggers for suicide are the breakup of a relationship, debilitating physical illness or accident, death of someone close, a suicide of someone famous or from a peer group, or bullying or discrimination.
For more information or to talk to someone about any difficulties that you or someone close to you might be having in their life, please contact LIFELINE on 0800 543 354 or at www.lifeline.co.nz.
Often people with depression also find they worry about things more than usual. This is known as anxiety. An anxiety disorder is more than just feeling stressed – it’s a serious condition that makes it hard for the person to cope from day-to-day.
It can cause physical symptoms like pain, a pounding heart or stomach cramps and for some people these physical symptoms are their main concern.
Anxiety may be constant, or it may come and go in certain circumstances. Either way it’s important to recognise anxiety when it occurs, and to seek help.